Monday, May 10, 2010

Do Babies With Autism Cry A Lot

Here we are afraid of a new mother

Essere mamma non e' cosi' facile, ogni giorno c'e' una cosa nuova che sembra difficilissima da fare.
The first fear and 'was:
  • put the body: the hospital okay' cause the nurses changed the nest. Come home, oh my! the body and neck of these 'too tight how do I shove! You have to be careful at the fountain, which stands at the head, do not want to choke, etc.. So I ask my mom and me that openness to speiga boat, bending it becomes huge, whereas for me it was not. Well put those body has taken me a lot of concentration those early days, accompanied by a little 'fear.
  • bathtime : one week after birth Chloe falls in the cord and here we are at long-awaited moment: the fateful bath. I decided to take a bath at 18 in the morning and I already 'I had nightmares and displayed as a slide I could not keep water in the afternoon, I read all the chapters devoted to the bath in my books. Arrivviamo to 18, get everything ready and obviously I do not feel, I ask her mother to wash it so 'I see, so' do and I wash my hair. Sounds simple, but bursting into tears over the bath flickering like an idiot, maybe it was a way to release stress and fear accumulated. However, two days after that appearance, and nothing so mother returns' at this point I do and courage with the support and guidance of Nigel I make bathtime and surprisingly there are successful, even though I sweat like a beast from the tension.
  • Saline : I did not know then that it was necessary to make these washes the child regularly. I found myself to make him one month after birth when the pediatrician told me. At the thought of spraying water into the nose I was shivering, I do not like and I think even my little mouse, but had to be done. I must say that in the end it 'been so' difficult and she did not 'complain. But the most annoying 'now that we have them on a regular basis' and I always get scared thinking that water to go sideways or something.
  • cradle cap : here we are at the stage of the crust. My mom and my aunt as a book, say they put the oil and then comb gently with a comb .... sounds easy, but if your mom tells you to "beware the fountain, just slowly!" everything gets complicated! If I using the comb to remove this crust, if I do I plan to do a caress, and remains the stuff! So I always gently with cotton, but without great results, then return to roost and I must say very slowly, we see the results.
  • Nail here and that 'the fear that I still have my current address. Until now, the claws of Chloe sunglasses were broken or otherwise had court. For two days I have grown and that 'even scratched. I have the scissors, the ones with rounded grains, but when I look at the claws I think it will be 'impossible to cut the few millimeters of nail and then when they do it? They say when he sleeps, mah! I think she will wake up '. and I would not cut a finger or hurt her. You can not polish instead? I think I saw on TV that the nurses limavano nails infants.
Who knows 'how much fear I will have to' deal in the life of mother, but we hope that these initial trivial :-)